Get expert, personal advice from someone who met their spouse by online dating. Twice!
I met both my first and my second husband through online dating, so I’m a firm believer in its powers, whatever your age or stage of life.
I’m also someone who has done online-dating the right way and the wrong way. The first time, I was solely focused on meeting Mr Right. The second time around, I set out to meet the person who was right for ME.
And I did.
When I rejoined Match the second time, I was statistically more likely to get struck by lightning than to marry again. I was over 40, a single mum, and a redhead (by far the least popular hair colour online).
But I knew what worked.
I’d worked with Match as their Dating Expert for 10 years, and had got the inside story on dating websites. I’d met thousands of members, and the engineers who built the site.
Using everything I’d learned, I met my second husband within 3 months of joining Match.
I’m now the Dating Coach for Ourtime – the UK’s dating website for the over-50s. I write advice columns and run online-dating coaching live events, where you can ask me all your questions about online dating.
I also offer personal, 1:1 online-dating coaching, and profile check-ups.
Personal Online-Dating Coaching
This is a great option if you want someone to walk you through the whole online-dating process and get you started. I can help you:
- Break through your blocks
- Realise who you’re really looking for
- Create a profile that attracts only those people – not time-wasters, or your standard “type”.
We can also craft the perfect first message.
Online-dating coaching is fun, helpful, warm, and confidence-boosting. Nobody is born knowing how to date online!
My personal coaching focuses on practical information (like setting up your profile), giving you a fresh start, and reigniting your confidence. I help you to enjoy the process.
Finding The One should be fun.
Thank you so much for your notes, and for a wonderful session – your warm and kind approach gave me a genuine hope for the future – not to mention the practical suggestions.
Coaching Client, October 2022
Personal online-dating coaching: £125 per hour.
Personal coaching costs £125 per hour.
You can start with one session, or buy blocks of three sessions for £300.
Sessions are over Zoom, at a time that suits you.
I also include a follow-up email full of tips just for you.
Profile Check-Up
Have you been dating for a while, but not getting many responses?
Are you attracting the wrong types of people?
Are you sending out messages that don’t get replies?
Would you like some feedback on your profile, but don’t want to ask your friends or family?
Try a Profile Health Check
In this useful 60-minute session, we’ll meet up on Zoom and look at your profile together.
We’ll study your photos, words, and info sections, and discuss easy ways you can immediately improve your profile.
We’ll create the changes together, and leave you with a shiny, polished, attractive profile that is designed to show you at your best, and attract the right people to you.
Thank you for your time this morning and for all your invaluable advice. I have three dates now – you ‘met’ them on my computer this morning! So this is all looking positive.
Thank you for your help, Kate. You are amazing.
Profile Check-Up client, September 2022
Profile Check Up: £125 for a 60-minute session.
Sessions are over Zoom, at a time that suits you. I aim for us to have your profile rewritten, and new photos added, by the end of the hour.
You’re ready to find love straight away.
I also include a follow-up email full of tips just for you.
Online-Dating Coaching Live Events
I absolutely love running these events. They’re fun, interactive, and really uplifting. Between 30 and 150 guests attend either in person or (more recently) online, and we discuss 2 or 3 different dating topics, give advice, and have a live Q&A. There’s usually a good mix of male and female attendees and yes, we’ve sparked a few dates.
Watch my live online-dating coaching by clicking each image below.
